This blog was formerly dedicated in 2009 to my Dad who died of Alzheimer's in 2013. It's been three years now...and I find myself missing blogging...so I am re-inventing my blog... because, after all, life is about moving through, and going forward...

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Re-prints of posts from last year, one week before Father's Day...Part 4

Father's Day, June 21, 2009: It Just Does Not Get Any Better Than This...

What a great Father's Day we had today with DAD!!! Have to admit, I know I was very apprehensive, I knew my sister was, and Mom was too. None of us said much on our way there, I think we were all "gearing up" and preparing "for anything". In that place one never knows...

We walked in with our gifts (knowing we could not leave them with Dad, and would have to take them back home) basically holding our breath. We were relieved when the nurse told us Dad was doing well, he had a shower, eaten breakfast and taken his medication.

When we walked into the lunchroom, he was just finishing up his lunch. He was dressed in his own tan pants, his blue sweatshirt and blue shirt. Blue is Dad's favorite color. His face looked smoothly shaved, happy and bright! He was alert and over joyed to see us.

We all gathered in his room, and ironically, his roommate was watching TV in the day room, so we had all the privacy we hoped for. Dad told us he had a shower and how awesome it was. He even got a massage afterward! It was so good to see him so animated, excited and positive. We took turns taking pictures with Dad. My sister had her Flip video recorder going as Dad opened my sister's card and read it. Just as Dad finished, our two youngest brothers walked in. More pictures with Dad and more video. Then in came two of Mom and Dad's friends from church!

As we all circled ourselves around Dad, he thanked everyone for coming. He then asked each of us to share our happiest childhood memory. He asked us to remember those precious moments where we laughed so hard we cried. We each took a turn relating our cherished memories, laughing and bringing up some great memories. We all marveled at how Dad took charge, how well he held a conversation and shared his thoughts and memories with us. We were all captivated as he shared dramatic memories of World War II, and the Battle of Tarawa.

One particular memory brought tears to our eyes, when Dad's friend from church shared a story Dad had told him the day before. He told us how Dad had described the day he met Mom. Dad and his buddy were on a weekend liberty and they met two girls on a hill in downtown Seattle. Dad told him one of the girls had the most beautiful face he had ever seen, and that was Mom. He still could repeat the phone number she gave him, Grant 4404, sixty-three and a half years ago.

It was also Mom's 82nd birthday. She and I had discussed what a challenge it would be to enjoy her day, but after our visit, we all felt uplifted and so very relieved. As our brothers waved good-bye to Mom, my sister and I, we all remarked on how good we all felt. We had a great lunch and then enjoyed the movie, The Proposal.

Tomorrow, God willing, Dad will be discharged and transferred to the new place. My plan is to ride in the ambulance with Dad, if they will allow it. Everyone please pray it goes well and the move will not be too stressful for him.

We went baring gifts, but the greatest gift of all, was what Dad gave to all of us. What a memorable, glorious day!
 
*** Tomorrow, I will post how we celebrated Father's Day, 2010 with Dad, one year later. ***
 

5 comments:

Bossy Betty said...

Read all of these posts. What emotion all of these posts encompass-the full roller coaster. Waiting for tomorrow's....

Mari said...

What an awful period you went through last year. When I read these posts, some of them are beyond my comprehension. This one left me smiling, though!

That corgi :) said...

I have been reading all these entries, Donna, even if I didn't comment on them all. It is interesting to look back on the last year where you were at this particular time with your dad. I'm glad you had a great Father's day with him last year; that was neat that he took the initiative to have you guys share favorite memories etc. I didn't realize how old your mom was and she was still working up until this past year. That is amazing!! I look forward to seeing how you celebrate this year's father;s day

betty

Rayna M. Iyer said...

It is Sunday in India, and I want to let you know that I am thinking of your today.

Grumpy Old Ken said...

Super memories in a way. Life is unpredictable, cherish it each and every day.